on a mission to making dating fun again.

From the Founders.

Hi, we're Kayla and Sophie.

We met while volunteering at a London leadership organisation that hosted events for young entrepreneurs. That meeting turned into Phiya Technologies, our female founded company with one mission: getting Gen Z and millennials connecting in the real world again. HENRYS is our first product.

We've been through modern dating ourselves, and we were over it. The swipe fatigue. The bots. The AI generated profiles. Dating apps have left people more frustrated and more disconnected than ever, us included.

So we started hosting dating events across London. Those events grew into a card game, because a game gives you a natural reason to talk to someone at a bar, a party, a wedding or the pub. That's how our grandparents met: in person, in the same room, with zero algorithms involved.

Between us, we had exactly the skills to build it. Kayla comes from operations (UK Growth and Operations at Rebel Athletic) and Sophia comes from marketing and PR (Bacchus and Perowne International).

HENRYS is low pressure and high fun. Nobody meets anyone with a screen in their hand, so put your phone down, deal the cards, and flirt offline.

The HENRYS Mission

Welcome to the world of HENRYS: The card game for meeting your match, IRL. Whether you're playing with friends or strangers, we hope this helps you make connections you wouldn't have made otherwise. 


We founded HENRYS because we believe everyone deserves to find their person and not die alone. Dating today has become a chore: forced, overloaded with advice, and honestly kind of depressing - leading to loneliness, especially in big cities, which is a real epidemic.


We wanted to bring the magic back to dating, so we went back to how our parents and grandparents met their partners: in the real world, at the places they already hung out.


At the end of the day, dating should be FUN. We want you to laugh, poke fun at the tropes we all know too well, and really get to know the people around you.


And hey, if this game somehow leads you to the love of your life, we expect an invite to the wedding.

frequently asked questions (dw you're not the first)

What actually is HENRYS?

A social card game about dating. It runs on the Bullshit/Cheat mechanic you already know — play cards face down, claim what they are, lie if you need to. The difference is what happens when you get caught. You draw a Character Card, get assigned a Truth or a Dare, and do it. Unless you have a Black Card to buy your way out.

How many people can play?

3 to 10. The sweet spot is 4 to 8.

What's in the box?

Two decks: a standard deck of playing cards, and the HENRYS deck (nine Character Cards plus Black Cards), an instruction pamphlet, and a sticker pack. All of it in a rigid magnetic-close box that survives being thrown in a tote bag.

Who are the characters?

Miss Delulu, Miss No Female Friends, Miss Not Drinking Tonight, Mr. Entrepreneur, Mr. Gaslighter, The Ghost, Mr. Henry, Mr. I Know a Place, and Mr. Trust Fund. You'll recognise at least three of them from your own camera roll.

Do I need to already know how to play Bullshit?

No. The full rules are in the box and take about two minutes to read. If you've played Bullshit before, you're ninety percent of the way there.

Is it for adults?

Yes. The prompts involve drinks, strangers, and your dating history. It's designed for adult players.

Can I play it without drinking?

Yes. Some dares involve a drink. Swap for water or skip, nobody's checking.

Where do you ship?

Internationally. Enter your address at checkout and you'll see the shipping cost and delivery estimate before you pay.

Where does my order ship from?

Our warehouse in the UK. UK orders are sent with Evri.

How long will it take?

Delivery estimates are shown at checkout based on your address. You'll get an email with tracking as soon as your order is dispatched. For full timings, see our Shipping Policy.

Will I have to pay customs or import fees?

If you're ordering from outside the UK, your country may charge import duties or taxes on arrival. These aren't included in your order total and are paid by you.

My tracking hasn't updated.

Give it 48 hours after the dispatch email — carriers sometimes lag. If it's still stuck after that, email us at admin@henrysdating.com with your order number and we'll chase it.

Do you offer returns or exchanges?

All sales are final. That said, if your order turns up damaged, wrong, or missing something, email admin@henrysdating.com with your order number and a photo and we'll make it right.

My order arrived damaged.

Send us a photo of the damage and the outer packaging, plus your order number, and we'll sort a replacement.

My order never arrived.

If tracking shows it delivered but you don't have it, check with neighbours and any safe place first. If it's still missing, email us and we'll open an investigation with the carrier.

Can I change or cancel my order?

Email us as soon as possible with your order number. If it hasn't been dispatched yet, we'll do what we can. Once it's shipped, we can't change it.

What's the free sticker?

Every order comes with a HENRYS sticker pack, packed inside the game box. It's not sold separately and it's not a discount — it's just yours.

Do you sell the Character Cards or stickers on their own?

No. HENRYS is sold as a complete game.

Can I buy more than one?

Yes, and there are bundle prices if you're buying for a group, a hen do, or a very specific ex.

What payment methods do you accept?

All available payment methods, including PayPal, are shown at checkout. Your currency is set automatically based on your location.

I'm a creator. Can I get a deck?

Email admin@henrysdating.com with your handle and a line about your audience. We work with people whose content we'd actually watch.

Can I stock HENRYS in my shop, bar, or event?

Yes! We're open to wholesale and event partnerships. Email us with what you have in mind at admin@henrysdating.com

Press or collaboration enquiries?

admin@henrysdating.com. Put "Press" or "Collab" in the subject line so it doesn't get lost.

What actually is HENRYS?

A social card game about dating. It runs on the Bullshit/Cheat mechanic you already know — play cards face down, claim what they are, lie if you need to. The difference is what happens when you get caught. You draw a Character Card, get assigned a Truth or a Dare, and do it. Unless you have a Black Card to buy your way out.

How many people can play?

3 to 10. The sweet spot is 4 to 8.

What's in the box?

Two decks: a standard deck of playing cards, and the HENRYS deck (nine Character Cards plus Black Cards), an instruction pamphlet, and a sticker pack. All of it in a rigid magnetic-close box that survives being thrown in a tote bag.

Who are the characters?

Miss Delulu, Miss No Female Friends, Miss Not Drinking Tonight, Mr. Entrepreneur, Mr. Gaslighter, The Ghost, Mr. Henry, Mr. I Know a Place, and Mr. Trust Fund. You'll recognise at least three of them from your own camera roll.

Do I need to already know how to play Bullshit?

No. The full rules are in the box and take about two minutes to read. If you've played Bullshit before, you're ninety percent of the way there.

Is it for adults?

Yes. The prompts involve drinks, strangers, and your dating history. It's designed for adult players.

Can I play it without drinking?

Yes. Some dares involve a drink. Swap for water or skip, nobody's checking.

Where do you ship?

Internationally. Enter your address at checkout and you'll see the shipping cost and delivery estimate before you pay.

Where does my order ship from?

Our warehouse in the UK. UK orders are sent with Evri.

How long will it take?

Delivery estimates are shown at checkout based on your address. You'll get an email with tracking as soon as your order is dispatched. For full timings, see our Shipping Policy.

Will I have to pay customs or import fees?

If you're ordering from outside the UK, your country may charge import duties or taxes on arrival. These aren't included in your order total and are paid by you.

My tracking hasn't updated.

Give it 48 hours after the dispatch email — carriers sometimes lag. If it's still stuck after that, email us at admin@henrysdating.com with your order number and we'll chase it.

Do you offer returns or exchanges?

All sales are final. That said, if your order turns up damaged, wrong, or missing something, email admin@henrysdating.com with your order number and a photo and we'll make it right.

My order arrived damaged.

Send us a photo of the damage and the outer packaging, plus your order number, and we'll sort a replacement.

My order never arrived.

If tracking shows it delivered but you don't have it, check with neighbours and any safe place first. If it's still missing, email us and we'll open an investigation with the carrier.

Can I change or cancel my order?

Email us as soon as possible with your order number. If it hasn't been dispatched yet, we'll do what we can. Once it's shipped, we can't change it.

What's the free sticker?

Every order comes with a HENRYS sticker pack, packed inside the game box. It's not sold separately and it's not a discount — it's just yours.

Do you sell the Character Cards or stickers on their own?

No. HENRYS is sold as a complete game.

Can I buy more than one?

Yes, and there are bundle prices if you're buying for a group, a hen do, or a very specific ex.

What payment methods do you accept?

All available payment methods, including PayPal, are shown at checkout. Your currency is set automatically based on your location.

I'm a creator. Can I get a deck?

Email admin@henrysdating.com with your handle and a line about your audience. We work with people whose content we'd actually watch.

Can I stock HENRYS in my shop, bar, or event?

Yes! We're open to wholesale and event partnerships. Email us with what you have in mind at admin@henrysdating.com

Press or collaboration enquiries?

admin@henrysdating.com. Put "Press" or "Collab" in the subject line so it doesn't get lost.